Dating MEXICAN GIRLS
18 True Stories About Interracial Hook-Ups, Dating, And Relationships
21 Mar For most of my adult life, I've dated white guys. I spent my childhood surrounded by black and brown kids, but when I got to high school, suddenly everyone around me was white. Like most of the girls in my class, I wanted attention from the boys. But while they chased after blondes and brunettes, I was. 14 Jul It was only 50 years ago that interracial marriage between black and whites was even made legal, which happened in my parent's lifetime! . I had been talking with this guy for a little bit, but decided to call it off after a bout of sexy texting ending with him sending me a diagram of a girl tied up in some kinky. 25 Jun After Ernest Baker's essay about interracial relationships, "The Reality of Dating White Women When You're Black," ran on Gawker earlier this month we men who've thought of me as the Mexican woman that is there only to serve, speaks Spanish in bed, or has a connect to an inner drug cartel member.
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Why do Mexican men think all gabachas are like the girls in Bikini Car Wash? I am married, a conservative dresser, frankly not very good-looking at all but I do have blond hair, so maybe that counts for something on a guy's internal whore-o-meterbut I speak karate-choppin'-good Spanish. In fact, that's my job: I interpret for Spanish speakers when they go to the doctor's office. So then why, when I interpret for a Mexican man, does he seem culturally required at some point to say something gross to me?
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Here's a real-life example from last week: Link had a series of doctor's appointments wherein he got poked and prodded, and his sexual dysfunction was discussed ad infinitum with me as the intermediary I think this might have something to do with it.
As we were waiting outside the last doctor's office, he blushed and whispered to me, "I wanna ask you a question, but I'm embarrassed.
Do Hispanic Girls go for White guys? I think they are amazing.
Is it possible that he has lived in this country for seven years and really thinks that we are all secretly strippers who like to dance on tables? I understood this bullshit when I lived in Latin America, since Bikini Car Wash -esque stuff plays constantly on broadcast TV, but the man has been in this country for seven years.
How can he think something so asinine at this point? What, pray tell, am I missing here? Wait — so not all white women are strippers?
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Wow, you learn new cosas every day! Anyhoo, in this case, the guy was obviously trying to reassert his manhood in front of a woman, so I wouldn't read too much about Mexicans through him.
Time and again, after being introduced to a black guy I was dating, my mother either let out heavy sighs or foretold my future under her breath. After Ernest Baker's essay about interracial relationships, "The Reality of Dating White Women When You're Black," ran on Gawker earlier this month we received hundreds of comments and emails objecting to, agreeing with, or otherwise responding to Baker. Don't give up what you want the most for what you want now.
But you're right about hombres viewing gabachas as perpetual putas one martini away from doing a DP. It's easy to blame Mexican machismo, but the real issue is exoticism: Gabachas are the Other, and thus easily sexualized. The same thing happens with gabachos and how they view Mexican women: This, of course, is nothing new: But as a result, gabachos have sexualized Mexican women ever since — and if you don't believe me, go to any fraternity's Cinco de Drinko bash.
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I don't think I'm that tall, but most of my dates, usually white or Latino guys, find a way to bring it up in conversation. I pretty much have dated Latinas and black girls since then. I'm a hopeless romantic to a fault.
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