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However, if you put down the cynicism for just a second, you'll realize that the signs are blatantly clear. When a man wants a real relationship, he'll put in way more effort than those just looking to hook up. He'll make it known by being attentive and thoughtful. He'll respect your pace, get to know you, and offer a shoulder to. 15 Jul The difference is whether she has more than sexual chemistry with me. As someone who did the casual thing for about 9 and a half years before meeting and getting to know my current gf (also a redditor and probably reading this), I'll try and give my take. Hookups tend to be based on aesthetics and sexual. Instead of trying to be subtle about he, he's letting you know up front he wants something more serious in his life and not just casual hookups. This is great If he's already talking about wanting to organize a group hangout session or he hints at a double date, odds are good that he's interested in more than hooking up.
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If he's just interested in sleeping with youhe's going to want to get down to business as fast as possible. He probably won't expect you to want to hookup on the first date but definitely the second.
It will be clear he's source down to wait very long to get with you. This obviously isn't the case with every hookupbut generally if a guy just wants to get you in bed he won't want to go slowly. He doesn't care to put a lot of effort into pleasing you in bed as much as he's focused on himself.
Generally, if you're just hooking up with someone there's no sleepovers involved.
You don't wan to spend your night cuddling and talking until the sun rises so he'll get out of there as soon as you're finished. But if you went to his place he'll probably hint that you should leave pretty soon after. If a guy invites you over for pizza and a movieit's already a clear sign that he just wants to hookup but that doesn't mean you have to.
But if that's all that's on his mind, he might get angry if you make an excuse to leave before it can get to the bedroom part. This isn't true of all guys, some want to sleep with someone before they even know whether or not they want a real relationship.
But it can be a good sign if he isn't eager to get into the bedroom with you and wants to take his time to get to know you first.
Guys are known to be pretty selfish in bed when they just want to sleep with someone. So when he takes his time to make sure you're enjoying yourself as much as he is then you know he cares enough to be thoughtful.
This isn't true of all guys, some want to sleep with someone before they even know whether or not they want a real relationship. When people are single, there may or may not be a few random flirty situations at hand. Dating is hard for everyone.
Cuddling releases all kinds of good endorphins and serotonins to make you feel happy just as much as sex does. So when he's willing to stay over and cuddle with you all night long it shows that he wants to be more intimate with you than just having a meaningless hookup.
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If you don't want to hookup right away or you're not comfortable doing something that he wants to do in bed he won't pressure you. He's happy to take things at whatever speed you want to as long as he gets to be close to you. Follow Facebook Twitter Instagram Youtube.
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If you don't want to hookup right away or you're not comfortable doing something that he wants to do in bed he won't pressure you. The best way to avoid becoming a hookup is to not sleep with the guy unless he makes a bit of a commitment. Constantly having to pick up on signs, figure feelings out, and think of the next steps can become a trial after a while. Follow Jennifer on Twitter Instagram.
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